"How will I know when I meet the right person?"
There are two types of reasons that people seek relationships/courtships:
1. To get love, validation, security and safety, or;
2. To grow spiritually and emotionally and to build a firm foundation on love.
With 1 year and 8 months we've been courting, we RECENTLY received confirmation that we both were made for each other. Yea, we said we were made for each other prematurely in our relationship, but that was solely off of our mentors telling us, our spiritual counselors told us, social media told us, but did WE really know if we were made for each other? No. Not until we recently passed our pre-engagement class. Yea, the social media "lovey dovey" posts are CUTE and flattering, but when the the likes and followers go away and it's time to start thinking about the future, and real-life challenges that you will face; your perception of what defines a real courtship gets real...
If you always feel insecure and alone, then you will most likely look for someone who will fill that inner emptiness and provide you with the love that you are seeking. You will constantly keep looking for someone who will complete you and make you feel adequate and worthy. We recently completed a very thorough 13-week class that showed us if we were meant to be with one another, allowed us to see if we had our own individual walks with Christ, and prepared us for the next journey in our lives, MARRIAGE.